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ABOUT ME

I'm Lilith!

doctor. mentor. speaker.

I'm dedicated to empowering you to break free from society's molds, activate your inner wisdom, and ignite a life so authentic, it's revolutionary.


The Journey to Here: My Origin Story 

I grew up in a cult where I was secluded from the "outside world". My life was filled with oppression, repression, depression, shame and abuse of every kind. I was taught to be seen but not heard, obedient and subservient, respectful to the elders who were harming me, never question authority, or what I was told to believe for that matter. I learned to be "good" and quiet, to not have needs or boundaries, and to hide my self expression. But, my curiosity and drive for freedom and self expression only grew stronger. I knew that life was meant to be lived fully and I knew that I would somehow find a way to live mine the way I truly wanted. When we left the cult, I saw what looked like freedom for the first time but I still found myself trapped in the same patterns of doing all I could to fit in but as closeted queer person with ADHD and PDA Austism who didn't have any experiential references as to what was "normal", I wasn't entirely successful. I went down a dark path of self loathing which led to a number of issues including an eating disorder, unconscious promiscuity, substance use, reckless behavior and really chaotic relationships. In my early twenties, I'd had enough and began on a path of healing and dicovering who I truly am underneath the programming and trauma. The path was long and winding and doesn't lead to any final destination as I will forever be healing, growing, evolving, deepening. The more I began to liberate myself, heal deep wounds, and begin feeling safe to be and express myself, the more I wanted to help others do the same. I know that if I could do it, you can to. True liberation isn't just being free from the chains of trauma and opression, it's about feeling free to be all that you are—whatever that looks like. I know more than anyone that we all have as unique pasts and challenges as we do gifts and strengths. Freedom and liberation will look different for me than it does for you. In my work, my intent is to help you discover yourself, trust yourself, develop and intimacy with and understanding of yourself, and learn how to interface with the world in a way that feels best for you. When you are deeply tuned into your inner knowing, you will always have a compass to help you find your way. My mission is to help you find your way home to your inner authority, power, and truth.


Formal Training & Soul-Schooling: The Cornerstones of My Expertise

Formally, I've spent years cultivating my skills and expanding my toolkit, earning degrees in Chinese Medicine, certifications in Acupuncture, and diving deep into the worlds of Tao of Trauma, Craniosacral Therapy, Theta Healing, Emotional Freedom Techniques, Human Design, Sacred Sexuality, Yoga, Philosophy, Psychology... the list goes on. 

But let's be real—some of my most transformative education didn't come from lectures, trainings or textbooks. I'm talking about the years I've spent devouring spiritual and self help texts, sitting with plant medicine, pushing myself outside of my comfort zone, unmasking my Autism and ADHD, healing attachment wounds through relationships, learning and developing comminication stills, boundary setting, moving through immense grief, trial and erroring my way through implementation and integration and soulfully parenting my son (as I reparented myself).

Formal education and training is important, no doubt. But, the wisdom that comes from real life experience can't be understated. 

My Human Design Chart

3/5 Emotional Projector

 

1/8 - Channel of Inspiration
“A Design of a Creative Role Model”

11/56 - Channel of Curiosity
"A Design of the Searcher"

18/58 - Channel of Judgement
"A Design of Insatiability"

24/61 - Channel of Awareness
"A Design of a Thinker"

30/41 - Channel of Recognition
"A Design of Focused Energy (Feelings)"

Right Angle Cross of Service 4 (58/52/18/17)
 "People whose joy in the wonder of life fuels their focus on challenging the norm, and perfecting the logical process through ideas and forms that serve society."

Qualifications

  • Doctorate of Acupuncture and Chinese  - Pacific College of Health and Sciences

  • Craniosacral Therapist

  • Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT Tapping) - Advanced Practitioner

  •  Tao of Trauma Practitioner

  • ThetaHealing - Advanced Practitioner 

  • Living Your Design - Human Design

  • BodyIntuitive Practitioner

  • Mukaino Method

  • Cosmetic Acupuncture Certification

  • Microneedling Certification

  • 200 hour YTT

  • Reiki Practitioner 

  •  NLP Level 1

  • A wide range of life experience - this is where my true wisdom and qualifications derive from

Studied & Integrated Modalities

  • Existential Kink
  • Senses of the Soul - Emotional Liberation
  • The Work by Byron Kate
  • Parts Work
  • Innerchild Work
  • Reparenting
  • Nonviolent Communication
  • The Victim & Empowerment Triangles

 

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Liberating Authenticity, One Soul at a Time 

My mission is to create sanctuaries of radical authenticity—spaces where you can shed societal labels and unearth the potent magic that's uniquely yours.

My Signature Method....Does Not Exist

 

 

Why No "Signature Method"?

 

Because You're Not a Cliché 

I reject the idea of a "Signature Method" because what's worked for me, might not work for you. My commitment is to help you find YOUR signature method, so to speak. My work is intuitive and adaptable. You are different from every single other person in this world. Your path will (and should) be too. A pre-set "method" would be like following someone else's treasure map and expecting to find your gold.

You're a Masterpiece, Not a Mold 

Your life, your struggles, your dreams—they're uniquely yours. Not a carbon copy of anyone else's. So, why should your path to transformation be any different? I'm not about to stuff your boundless spirit into a one-size-fits-all box. That's not my style, and I doubt it's yours. My clients don't just walk away with solutions; they walk away with deepened trust and intimacy with themselves and the courage to be who they truly are.

Structured Chaos: Where the Magic Happens 

Enhanced by my education in Chinese Medicine, I possess a natural aptitude for identifying the core golden thread that intricately weaves together seemingly disparate elements of your life. By focusing on this central theme, we can create transformative shifts that reverberate throughout your entire life tapestry.

No BS, Just Authenticity 

We're not just acknowledging the mess, the complexity, and the contradictions—we're actively leaning into them. Why? Because it's often in the midst of life's complexities that the most transformative growth occurs. You're encouraged to bring your whole self—seeming "flaws", contradictions, paradoxes and all. We recognize that life isn't a neatly packaged experience; it's a dynamic interplay of various elements that can sometimes feel at odds with each other. Yet, it's within this intricate web of experiences and emotions that your most authentic self resides. By courageously delving into these complexities, we can unearth the hidden gems of wisdom and insight that are often overlooked in a world that prefers simplicity over depth. This is a space where your contradictions aren't just accepted; they're celebrated as integral parts of your multifaceted identity. It's through embracing, rather than avoiding, these complexities that we can catalyze the most profound transformations.So, come as you are—with all your complexities—and let's turn them into your greatest assets.

 

 

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